What “I’m Done” Really Means

The two relational styles that explain your most exhausting argument — and what they’re really saying underneath it. Picture this scene. Something happened, maybe it’s small, maybe it isn’t. One person wants to talk about it. They bring it up. The other gives a short answer, or goes quiet, or moves to another room. The […]

The moment most couples have their big insight — the one that shifts something — is also, paradoxically, the moment their growth most often stalls. Here is what I mean. After deep work in therapy or in a program like my Become One Again Marriage Rescue Plan, couples will often look at each other and […]